The landscape of your home changes when children are no
longer living at home. It’s quieter and cleaner. Every room that was touched by
your child when he was living there is dramatically changed when he is gone.
My youngest son may be gone, but I have gained my laundry
room back! No longer is it filled with piles of clothes on the floor, in the
dryer or in laundry baskets. And speaking of laundry baskets, I no longer have
to hunt them down because they are right where I left them!
Then there’s the kitchen. Since becoming empty nesters, our
refrigerator has seen the biggest transformation. We can actually find things
in it now! It’s no longer filled with gallon milk and juice containers, cheese
sticks, packs of eggs and bacon.
And then there’s the dishwasher.
With children in the house, we ran that dishwasher about
every other day. I swear, every glass we owned was in it, every time, not to
mention every single fork and plate.
Now, it’s filled with Tupperware and wine glasses.
Tupperware because now we actually have leftovers, and wine
glasses because we only have to run the dishwasher maybe twice a week. It might
look like I drink a lot of wine, but it’s actually several days’ worth of
glasses.
As I write this, the prodigal son is home for Thanksgiving
break. The basement has been reclaimed by him and his friends; I’m missing a
laundry basket, and the dishwasher is filled with everything except Tupperware
and Wine Glasses.
It’s good to have him home.